If you are a skinny guy that is killing himself in the gym lifting heavy weights and eating eight meals a day in an effort to get bulkier, stop right now. There is no point and you are wasting time that can be better spent actually doing something that will work a lot better with your body type. Whether you know it or not, you are very capable of having BBW swoon over you without having to look like a stacked athlete. It took me nearly five years to finally put all of the pieces together as to why I was having such an easy time with women in spite of being a skinny guy, but I’ve finally figured it out. Orlando Bloom, Johnny Depp, a younger Leonardo Di Caprio, and your typical male model. What do they all have in common? None of them are built like athletes and none of them are huge. They are all leaner, skinnier guys. Now you’re starting to see where I’m going with this. The most sought after men in the world are not the typical athletes and body builders that you think of as BBW wanting the most.

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Let me explain what happened to me. I basically went from being a skinny guy whose looks got him very little attention from women, to being a skinny guy that constantly has women hitting on him, staring at him, approaching him, and always telling him how hot or gorgeous he is. I was not ready for what had happened to me once my body started to develop into what it is today. What I went through was very similar to what happens to BBW that were very skinny when they were a lot younger. They basically went from getting no attention for their physical looks from the opposite sex, to being one of the most sought out sex partners as adults. What happens to kids that are very skinny, is that they grow up, start to fill in some, and they become extremely hot. Assuming that they’re wearing the right clothes and hairstyling, they will all of a sudden become bombarded with attention from the opposite sex. This happened to me in my early twenties. I went from being just a skinny guy, to a very lean muscular guy with a well defined bone structure in my face; the same stuff that models are made of. When I wear the right clothes, I find myself having to ignore chubby women because they won’t leave me alone. I don’t have any pictures up now, but whenever my friend gets her Macbook fixed, I’ll have her take a few pictures of what I look like when I’m wearing the right clothes to give you an idea of what I look like when I start to receive a lot of attention from busty women.

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What I will say, however, is that there are women that are going to go after the huge athlete type guys first. Fortunately for you, those women tend to be your typical average looking street BBW. Your top-notch women that look like super models are going to go after the leaner Orlando Bloom male model types first. The typical average looking street girl is going to go after the athlete or body builder first. What does this look consist of? Read carefully, because if you’re a skinny guy, I’m about to save you a load of time by teaching you how to take full advantage of your body type. Some skinny guys never reach that extremely hot point because they don’t know how to take advantage of their body type. For one, the Orlando bloom types usually have expensive looking or very clean looking haircuts. They usually have a very high-end salon look or they buzz their hair all the way down. Overall, you want to go for a very clean or high-end look.

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As for your face, it should have this very youthful look. If you’re trying to mimic a model, then rugged is not good in most cases. I’m not saying that you shouldn’t have facial hair, but if you do, then it should just be very clean and neat. The key to pulling off a pretty-boy model look is having boyish looking skin with a masculine jawline or cheekbones. And since you’re skinny, you really shouldn’t have a round face since you won’t have a lot of fat on your jaws or under your chin. As a skinny guy, your face is perfect for pulling off the pretty-boy model look. All you have to do is keep your facial hair neat and your skin moisturized and youthful looking. Now that you know what your face should look like, let’s move on to your body. Skinny is good, but only if you aren’t “just a skinny guy”. You should strive to be a skinny guy that has a masculine shape to his body. When you look at male models, although they are skinny, they actually have muscles due to making sure that their bodies are really toned. I don’t know how they do it, but I keep my physique by doing mostly kinesthetic type exercises (sit-ups, push-ups, crunches, pull ups, etc) and no heavy weight lifting (I do P90X). What this does, is give your body a really good masculine form for your clothes to shape around while still maintaining a very lean, skinny look.

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Speaking of your clothes, you definitely want quality high-end clothes. However, you want to keep it simple. You don’t want to go the route of thug or Ed Hardy/Affliction glitter douchebag. The types of women that go for guys that dress like that usually want the guys that are “juiced” with ridiculously huge muscles, which means that you’ll be trying to compete in an arena that doesn’t best benefit you. I know that when you spend $100+ on one shirt or a pair of jeans you will have the inclination to let everyone know it by making sure you buy a shirt that advertises it everywhere via trademark graphics or logos. DON’T DO IT. If you look at any of the celebrities that I mentioned or models, then you will notice that almost NONE of them dress that way. Instead, they usually wear clothing lacking in the graphics and logo departments. What’s more important, is that the clothing fits their body really well (showing off their lean masculine shape), and that the quality of the material is really high. You get both features by spending the extra money on your clothing by buying the designer brands that don’t advertise themselves all over their clothing via glitter & graphics. Most of the designer stuff that doesn’t advertise all over their clothing is usually made for leaner guys anyway. Most bigger athletic type guys can’t fit into their stuff. Fancier high-end brands make their stuff with the skinny guy in mind.

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Jewelry is also an important part of the look. Again, the jewelry isn’t about advertising. It’s more about how well it meshes with your look. The first instinct of men trying to attract BBW is to go out and buy these fancy watches and bracelets with diamonds all over them. That may work with your average street girl, but the types of women that go after the model types are the types of women that are judging you moreso by your overall look than by your attempt to advertise how big your bank account is. The lean pretty-boy with the nice fitting clothes and well-meshed accessories is going to get more attention than the glitter gym junkie running around with these very loud diamond watches and diamond bracelets. As for your shoes, it really depends on the direction you’re going with your clothing. Whatever the case, your shoes should say designer brand. For instance, if I were going to throw on a pair of sneakers, I wouldn’t put on the typical pair of Nikes or Vans. Instead, I would wear a classier pair of sneakers that the average guy wouldn’t think of wearing (read: not Air Force Ones or Chuck Taylors). For example, I believe that Steve Madden and Diesel make higher-end sneakers that you’re not going to find in most stores or on the feet of most men. And as for dress shoes, be prepared to shell out the cash. The last thing you want to do is ruin your model-like look by wearing a pair of cheap janky-looking dress shoes or boots.

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I have now given you the tools to turn yourself into a drop-dead gorgeous lady magnet. Instead of fighting your body type, use it to your advantage. Pretty-boys are usually thin guys that don’t spend any time trying to bulk up, and instead work on maintaining a very lean, skinny look with a masculine shape. If you are skinny, you are naturally beautiful in the eyes of a lot of BBW around the world; hence, why fancy designers make their clothes with the skinny guy in mind. It is up to you to take advantage of this little known fact by buying the right clothing and accessories, toning yourself up to produce a very lean muscular build, and giving your face a very youthful, yet masculine look.

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